I no that as a child we were told you never let your right hand know what the left hand is doing, but when that comes into a relationship I believe there are certain boundaries. The past should be left in the past unless it is worth the share, because they are certain things that you share that seem to keep coming up over and over. So when do you draw the line and just keep certain things to oneself. Do you tell if a ex is coming in town to visit. Do you tell why you and your ex broke up, do you tell how you enjoyed certain things that you and your friends did.
Is there certain things that you shouldn't compare and contrast in your current relationship. What is enough and what is too much.
You feel that certain things should be told because you don't want to keep any secrets ad then they come out in conversations with family or friends. So what are the limit when it comes to being open in a relationship?
Personally, I think it depends on the type of person & the type of relationship you have with them. I've learned that certain people can handle certain things. You have to know the person you are with before divulging certain things.
ReplyDeletejust mind yourself that you wouldn't like someone hiding anything from you so don't hide things from them
ReplyDeleteI like to treat people the way that I would like to be treated personally, if it was me I would like to know why is there a need to keep in touch with your ex?
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